Hmm...maybe there's something to these quirky online surveys
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I attended a focus group on grant writing for NSF this morning. Unfortunately, I was the only graduate student in attendance. But, I managed to find the women's table and it was all good. (I don't know why the attendees were arranged by gender. Seems a little strange.) I met a very nice woman who just began her first year teaching here and she offered to read my proposal. So I looked her up online and discovered that she is only one and a half years older than I am, and she even completed her postdoc before joining the Chemistry Department here. Ahhhhh!
I've been reading other grad student's and professor's blogs lately and it sounds like a few readers have noted that some profs complain about their grad students online and vice versa. I can imagine that this would be incredibly painful to read. So then I searched my archives because I vaguely remember writing something negative about my classes, but I don't think I identified the classes in specific. I also remember that I wrote a great deal about my angst with teaching last year.
You find a fruit fly entangled in your loofah. Yuck!
Okay, this is getting a little weird. Another search term that led someone here was the phrase "James Mark Baldwin" bordello. I'm actually starting to get a little paranoid that a certain prof in my department is putting these particular search terms in google in order to find me. He knows that I blog, and I've dropped the name of my blog before, and these are particular terms or topics that he's taught us in two different classes last semester.
Somebody found this blog by searching the terms "guttman, coefficient of reproducibility." Ahhh! Ha Ha Ha! And all this person got was a 3:30am rant about how I don't understand Guttman scaling, followed by my miserable attempt to explain it. Okay, I have to stop rolling on the ground laughing now. This was just too much. Good luck and try a different website. Heh!
One of the other grad students began gossiping about his own office mate today. Something to do with his failure to defend his master's and submit the thesis to the grad school. And perhaps his quest to apply to every Ph.D. program we have in this building in order to stay here. Then being rebuffed by said programs because of his non-finalized master's. All I can say is, I tried to counter everything this grad student said based on my own knowledge. What do you mean? Didn't he just defend his thesis last semester? Really, I think he just wanted to perfect the thesis, but his advisor told him to submit it. What? I though he only wanted a degree in School Psych. No, he has a master's in stats, too. He could have just gotten his Ph.D. in stats, but he wanted to go into School Psych. And he was accepted, by the way.
Here's an example of my class project for tomorrow. All I have to do is find an article that is relevant to the readings and then describe it. Doesn't sound so hard, right? WRONG! See for yourself. (I actually wrote this, please don't steal without citing me.)
Two paragraps down the page, you stop reading because you realize you've been thinking about your research rather than bothering to understand the meaning of the text.
Let's see, what else besides blogging can I do to avoid reading it?
This time I found myself riding the elevator up four flights with my ex-boyfriend. It was okay, though. He apologized for his behavior after we broke up and the things he said or wrote to me. He said he was fine now and he understood.
I went grocery shopping today and as I pulled up to the counter with my frozen dinners (insert ramen joke here) I noticed a pair who were buying a couple sixpacks of soda. The lady counted out her coins on the conveyor belt and came up short. She was trying to buy 2 or 3 dollars worth of soda with only change. Finally, the man returned one of their items and they payed for only the other item. I felt an immense sense of sadness at their plight and my own sense of embarrassment if I was in their place. I wanted to offer my own coins, but I only had pennies (no cash) and I didn't know how my gesture would be received. I felt immobilized in indecision, sadness, and embarrassment.
Seems I'm getting the chance to redeem myself of my prideful idiocy of the past. I spent five years here laboring away at a (nearly combined) undergrad and master's program. Then I left for two years and came back a changed person. The most changed aspect of myself being the reduction of my pride and relatively massive ego. I must defend myself, of course, because in my field, having a "well-developed" ego is imperative, and in some cases, necessary to survival. In fact, criticism of research is thrown around so easily that one must be pretty self-assured to develop and test one's own theories. I'm a theory person as well. In fact, I took a silly IQ test on Tickle.com some time ago and it also analyzed the pattern of responses to come up with my thinking style. According to the online test, I'm a "revolutionary philosopher." Of course, the validity is highly questionable, but since the results are so amusing and "dead-on," I'll overlook such a "minor" issue. Anyhoo, now that I've lead you to question my so-called ego-reduction, I'll move on to the purpose of the post.
It is now 3am and I cannot fall asleep because of that one cup of coffee that I drank at 12:30am in order to energize my mind enough to comprehend my readings. Sometimes a series of stupid decisions is made that completely embarrass me. Like this one perhaps. I was riding a high wave after the episode of genius in class (he, he) and in order to balance out the universe, I proceeded to descend into the realm of stupidity. It was fine when I decided to write out checks for bills before starting the reading, but then I absorbed myself in internet musings and travel through interwebs of information. No other activity holds fast on my attention as browsing the internet. I then find myself drifting into sleepiness at a time that I normally go to bed. Unfortunately, my readings still beckon my name, calling from the depths of pages made of paper rather than a rapidly refreshing screen. I heed the call, but not without reinforcements in the form of caffeine. Oh, caffeine, my friend and foe. Giving me a boost of energy that lasts beyond the desired time frame. For here I am again, late into the night, realizing that drifting into sleep is only composed of feelings of floating and wheels churning in my mind. All the result of a bad series of decisions. Although one thing is for sure. My late night ramblings are more interesting than the writings I produce during the day.
Why? Oh, why? Oh, why do I allow myself to play around on the internet when I have 25 pages to read for the next day? Why???
My game was on tonight in class! We were talking about intelligence in our Individual Differences in Cognition class, and I surprised even myself with my keen insight and fluid responses. I do not know where that came from, but I spoke with authority and responded to nearly everyones' presentation with a deeper or alternative explanation for the findings. I spoke clearly and concisely and even used big words (ohhh!). I was amazed as well to find that almost every time I said something, a chorus of "Ahas!" would ensue as lightbulbs went off in peoples' heads. I'm not trying to puff myself up. I'm actually surprised and impressed with myself, having not expected such capacity in my own self.
I was figuring out how to fill out the basic paperwork for the NIH-NRSA fellowship application yesterday, and somehow found myself wondering whether my previous advisor at a different university had accepted new grad students. I think I was prompted by the fact that I was first introduced to the idea of applying for the fellowship while I was at that university.
I'm second-guessing myself again. I would not have been successful or happy there, and the past is gone. But, I wonder, what if she had never been there to begin with? Would I be on my way to a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience by now?
My favorite mutual friend of the ex and I dropped by the computer lab to return the stats book I loaned him. He asked me how I was doing and I was doing fine until he asked. No tears, but instead descension into doldrums. He was concerned about me and offered a listening ear if ever I wanted to talk, which was incredibly kind of him. But, now I am reminded of everything that happened in the last two weeks. And without my permission, my spirits have fallen and stayed low.
Twas a strange day today. I woke up feeling like perhaps I might be coming down with a cold. So I took vitamin C and zinc. However, on my way into school, I felt such horrible stomach cramps. I hoped it was just gas, so I tried burping. But, on my way into the building, I threw up a little in my mouth. Alarm bells went off inside my head and I just barely made it into the bathroom before projectile vomiting into the trash can. In the midst of all this, one of the professors I know from a different department came in and the first thing she said was, "Are you pregnant?"
Your Brain is 47% Female, 53% Male |
Your brain is a healthy mix of male and female You are both sensitive and savvy Rational and reasonable, you tend to keep level headed But you also tend to wear your heart on your sleeve |
So sad to return back to normalcy. The weekend spent with my sisters was an act of self-denial because whatever I wanted to do was no longer the prime consideration. My primary responsibility seemed to be "distracting," I mean "playing," with the children while the rest of the adults accomplished important things. It was actually very nice because I pushed all thoughts of school to the back burner and just hung out with the family. Although today I was mildly depressed at the thought of returning and working on school stuff all evening.